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Diluting the Toxins

  • Abigail Wallace
  • October 24, 2022
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“What is the current state of your heart’s soil? Is it muddy, weedy, rocky, or clay? Exhausted, wild, or dry?”

The responses to those questions were what you’d expect from hard-working women on a weekend retreat: plenty of exhausted soil, three weedy women, and one wild woman.

But then Shelly chimed in with a question that stopped me cold: “What about contaminated soil? I’m surrounded by toxic relationships. I can’t change those.”

The theme of the retreat was “fruitfulness.” As the speaker, I’d explained how adding certain qualities changes our heart’s soil (see 2 Peter 1:5-7). Shelly’s question came just as we reached the theme verse: “For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ” (2 Peter 1:8).

I thought of my dad and his blueberries. To help his non-native bushes grow, he adds coffee grounds to alter the soil’s pH. His method works. Dad’s bushes burst with fruit. But what if it was a can of paint seeping poisons into the plant’s tender roots? What about those toxic influences we can’t escape? Can fruit come—even then?

To my relief, Susanne spoke up: “The solution to pollution is dilution. You can’t always remove toxins from the blood, but you can dilute them. You can insert an IV and those pure fluids will dilute.”

Susanne is a nurse. She knows.

We cannot always change our circumstances. We cannot end every toxic relationship, but we can nurture healthy friendships. We cannot avoid hearing negative words, but we can feed our minds Scripture’s pure truth (Psalm 19:8).

We can reduce the potency of pollution. We can dilute harmful influences in our heart’s soil with healthy influences. Pollution need not stop us from producing fruit.

What toxic influences might you need to dilute today?

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Abigail Wallace

Abigail is a Bible teacher and writer whose greatest joys come from helping women grow strong in their faith as they learn to see through their "hard" to the loving hand of God. Abigail lives in a little house in the big woods of Wisconsin with her husband and two sons. She loves to stalk sunsets, walk with friends, and mark all over books as she reads. Sign up for more soul-strengthening, biblical encouragement at AbigailWallace.com or follow her on Facebook or Instagram.

10 comments
  1. Nikki S. White says:
    October 24, 2022 at 6:18 am

    “We can reduce the potency of pollution. We can dilute harmful influences in our heart’s soil with healthy influences. Pollution need not stop us from producing fruit.”

    Whoa! This really got me thinking, Abigail. Thank you!

    PS: Don’t you love how God sent His answer through the gathering of His people? His ways always have me shaking me head in wonder.

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  2. Abigail says:
    October 24, 2022 at 7:52 am

    Thanks, Niki! Great point. The answers came in the gathering of his people. There will be contaminants and toxins in this world, despite our best efforts. Wheat and weeds together. But one glorious day…

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  3. Charissa says:
    October 24, 2022 at 10:56 am

    Thanks for this! A great reminder of how God always makes a way!

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    1. Abigail says:
      October 24, 2022 at 12:21 pm

      Thanks, Charissa! Yes! Our God is a Waymaker!

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  4. Danielle says:
    October 24, 2022 at 11:16 am

    Great reminder to go to God’s word to fill up on truth.

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    1. Abigail says:
      October 24, 2022 at 12:44 pm

      Danielle, spot on. Hallelujah!

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  5. Ana Adler says:
    October 24, 2022 at 11:27 am

    I love this analogy! “What about contaminated soil? I’m surrounded by toxic relationships. I can’t change those.” and Pollution need not stop us from producing fruit. I am definitely sharing your post!

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    1. Abigail says:
      October 24, 2022 at 12:46 pm

      Thank you, Anna! Hallelujah! Susanne’s insight has definitely strengthened my ♥️!

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  6. Cora Bushey says:
    October 25, 2022 at 9:36 am

    “We cannot always change our circumstances. We cannot end every toxic relationship, but we can nurture healthy friendships. We cannot avoid hearing negative words, but we can feed our minds Scripture’s pure truth (Psalm 19:8).” So thought provoking and encouraging! Thank you!

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    1. Abigail says:
      October 25, 2022 at 11:49 am

      Thanks, Cora. Praise the Lord. I need to keep reminding myself: I can do something. It’s not all or nothing.

      Reply

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